Wednesday, November 11, 2009

i didn't even want to approach this.

so after yesterday, i really didn't feel like blogging anymore. i debated even approaching this. i could have deleted the mean comment. not brought it up. i could have done a lot of things. but i let it get to me. i hate mean comments and i let it get to me. which was lame. if you don't like my blog. DON'T READ IT. sure i have come across blogs that i do not really care for, but it's my own fault for reading them. and i would never make a negative comment on them. i may secretly laugh when others do but i certainly don't have to read them if i don't want to. i know it's hard. sometimes they are like a trainwreck, that you can't help but read. i will admit i am somewhat of a trainwreck. so whatever. read my blog if you want. and random strangers telling me to "grow up." well, clearly on my blog i make fun of the fact that i suck at being domestic and am not the greatest wife. yeah i need to grow up. i'm working on it. my life is not perfect. and i prefer it that way. this blog is the unfiltered me. this is my life and some things i might say will offend people. but that is how i am and i am a work in progress. just like everyone else. and yeah i whine. who doesn't? my car broke down. could things be worse? YES. but if i had the chance for my car to not break down? you bet i would take it in a heartbeat. if that makes me selfish then so be it. i'm fine with being selfish.

i also think that i am truly blessed and even though i make fun of myself and sean? we love each other more than you know. we are best friends. it is how we work. and i think it is lame that i have to defend that. well i don't think random strangers have the right to point out something that is clearly obvious. i have had people say, "don't take it personal" and stuff like that. but it is a blog about MY life. how can i not take that personal? anyway, it is over now, and i appreciate all of the people that stood up for me and still come back and read. i shouldn't care what anyone thinks of me but my friends, family, and God. i have made so many amazing friends through this blog. people that i have never even met, defended me. i appreciate it and think you should check out some of their blogs! thank you lauren, olivia, mindy, and stacy. and everyone else. you guys are all great and your blogs always bring a smile to my face.

anyway, enough with the drama. i'm done with high school for a reason. i will post a less serious post now. love you all!

oh. here is picture that made me feel better


this was sean on halloween at our work party.
hott stuff!

28 comments:

Maddie said...

way to go chlo :)

Tennessee Sigmans said...

Chloe - It is your blog and you can say what you want, how you want and when you want! So blog on!

You don't know me - I am the one that lives in Tennessee. I love reading your blog, though! You sound like me at times. Domestication is not my thing! Luckily I married someone who is great at cleaning, cooking, and all that stuff!

Hang in there!
Stephanie

Tolman Family said...

I love your blog. Keep doing what you're doing! because it makes me happy to read your funny posts.
PS. We just had to pay half a gazillion dollars to get our car fixed and I'm totally upset about it and will not stop being mad for at least a week.

Sam said...

haha that pic is funny. i'm sorry that comment got you down :( how mean.

Sydney Swift said...

so, i read that comment, and i would be just as angry and upset as you are right now. who gave that person the right to treat you like that? it's ridiculous and completely unfair for that person to judge you so harshly.
none of your other followers think of you like that, we come back because we adore your hilarious writing. don't go private just because one person can't see the funny side. we still love you Chloe <3

Rasha @ and this is what she said... said...

OK. WHO DID it... Puke your dukes up here, I come!!!

sorry someone was mean :(

Spencer & Cara said...

ok what the FUHHHHHH, did you delete the comment they left? Don't you love it when people feel the need to shove their thoughts down someone elses throat who could give 2 craps about what they are saying to begin with. What a loser... seriously. You are awesome, and I love that you are yourself and embrace your flaws. Loves.

Spencer & Cara said...

ok yeah just read "lisa's" comment. Get a life Lisa... truly if anyone should feel sorry for someone its all of us feeling sorry for you and whoever you come in contact with miss negative nelly.

dailygoods said...

ughh that frustrates me! What i don't get is why people continue to read if they are not enjoying the content? These people need to get a life, and more importantly a sense of humor. I love your sense of humor and so do all of your readers. Don't let this schmuck get you down, youre amazing girl!!! :) xoxo

The Boob Nazi said...

I took down the ability for anonymous comments because of stupid people like that. If you want to call me stupid, fat, ugly, superficial, ditzy, etc, DO IT WITH YOUR NAME ATTACHED!!!!

Randi Lee said...

ewww, I don't even feel like giving her more attention that she has already received. But, yuck. People that have time to be negative about someone's life (especially when they don't know the person!) are lame... and commenting about their negative thoughts on that person, is even more pathetic. I think Home Slice needs to find a few hobbies.

Tennessee Sigmans said...

Chloe - Yes - I know Skyler - My husband is her uncle - Her Mother's brother. We have only been married three years. Skyler is a sweetheart!

How is California, today? Is it sunny and warm. It has been cloudy and cool here in TN. I am ready for an afternoon nap!

Shannon Murphy said...

ohhh I am so sorry about that comment! That would definitely ruin my day too! I LOVE your blog sooo much! you always make me feel better about myself because then I know I'm not the only one who feels kind of useless, unmotivated and lazy at times!! Seriously... You are AMAZING!!! I think you are hilarious and I completely look up to you! don't listen to those mean comments, she's just RUDE

Shannon Murphy said...

p.s. that picture of sean is absolutely hilarious... I laughed out loud

{megs in wonderland} said...

i will defend your honor until the end!!! mean people can suck it.

ps your husband is hilarious, just like you.

grant + brittany said...

you are the person that helps me to accept things about myself. had a busy day yesterday, sorry i didn't defend you. but everybody loves you and you have a million followers and you make me a happier person. and when people get to know you in REAL LIFE, you are not near as "a mess" as you come off in your blog. you are so kind and caring. those sound like stupid things that people always say about each other but seriously, so so so caring. there to help if anyone needs you- that is NOT selfish. and your kindness in the very beginning of our real life relationship made me feel so comfortable. i love you. the end.

grant + brittany said...

oh and YOU are PERFECT for sean. in every way.

my name is lauren. said...

love you chlo! (*note, that was not a mis-spelling where i left the e off...i was intentionally calling you chlo).

i just remembered this really good quote i'm sure you've heard:

"No one can make you feel inferior without your consent." - eleanor roosevelt

i always have to remind myself of this, cause i am such a people pleaser and i absolutely can't stand it when someone dislikes me.

and also, i love your and sean's relationship. you guys are awesome. sometimes people think craig and i have relationship issues cause we bicker and banter, but we've been best friends forever...it's just how we work. and you and sean work wonderfully just the way you are!

p.s. that picture of sean is maybe one of the coolest you've ever posted. like....ever :).

Elise Halladay said...

Oh Chloe. I can't even tell you how cool you are. Ha ha. I totally look up to you and think you are awesome. Thanks for being my hero and maybe we can actually hang out one day.

Michael & Mindy said...

Thanks for promoting my blog! Now it can be popular! Kidding. But thanks :) And you know I will defend your blog because I love it and we are BBBFL who actually need to be friends in real life. And you listend/read me vent forever today about lame crap? So yeah. Pretty much you're awesome.

courtney said...

hi! i don't remember how i found your blog, but i LOVE it. i read your posts to my husband & tell him you're my new role model. seriously, you make my day! you're blog is the most honest & hilarious one i've come across. (ps. i hope it's not creepy that i read your blog even though i don't know you...)

courtney said...

ugh, and by "you're blog" i mean "your blog"

Tara Bishop said...

I absolutely love your blog. I visit it more often then my othe family members.

What a dork that "anonymous" joker was...

Keep on writing.

Katie Lynn said...

I don't remember how I came across this blog, but I read it and love it. I think you are hilarious and your relationship is exactly the one I want. You both are too cute! I didn't see the mean comment, but I'm sure they were just jealous. :)

chloejessica said...

Chloe you have an awesome name and who ever said something lame to you is very lame! They are just jealous! :)

Katy said...

Chloe,I just have to say that I love your blog! I think you are a wonderful writer, and your honesty, humor and "unfiltered"-ness is so refreshing! Don't let mean comments get to you, because there are plenty of us who appreciate your writing. :)

The Boob Nazi said...

I think you took down the ability to make anonymous comments. GOOD FOR YOU.
Once, an anonymous commentator MADE A FAKE GMAIL ACCOUNT to send me mean comments. They named it, "Anonymous, my foot!" I was like, hey, idiot, YOU ARE ANONYMOUS! You normally write "my foot" when someone said something fake. Good luck!

aDeLiNe said...

Best Halloween Outfit ever!
(I mean it)