Monday, August 15, 2011

It's not going to turn out the way you thought.

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don't worry. this post isn't about moses haha. i had to throw a picture of him in though. it's from photobooth on my mac so that's why it is such fantastic quality. ha. i have lost quite a few followers since blogging about him more often. and i know my blog isn't as entertaining as it used to be. but that's okay. it's still my life. i don't blog for followers though, so oh well! anyway, moving on.

you know.. sometimes there are just some things that you wish you could have told your younger self. things that you wish you would have known. things that you know now, but didn't believe then. there were times when i felt so broken that i thought i could die. i know that sounds dramatic. but when you don't know any better? that is just how you feel sometimes. my friend lee shared this beautifully written blog post with me today. it was written by a girl named kate moller. you can check out her blog here. anyway this blog post really hit home to me for some reason. i think almost anyone can relate to it, but i definitely felt like it was written for me even though it wasn't. i needed to read this today. obviously i still have a lot to learn and a long way to go in this journey called life but it was nice to get this reminder. here is that post. it seems long but it is worth the read! it is called:


It's not going to to turn out the way you thought.


It will happen later. His best friend will ask you out instead. You’ll be kissed in the movies instead of on a beach. You’ll end up going to a different school because the one you thought you’d get into didn’t work out.

She’ll move away. Someone else will move in next door. She’ll be a little weird at first, a little more shy, but ultimately really good at riding bikes and playing dolls.

That part you always wanted will go to that other girl instead. And you’ll rock it out in the chorus like your life depended on it. Because on some level it does.

The road you were going to take will be flooded and closed. The inn where you were going to stay will be under renovations. He’ll be taller than you thought. And have a funny accent. But will be a good kisser nonetheless.

You’ll get a flat tire on the way to that crucial meeting and end up peeing your pants laughing with the gas station attendant over a copy of Us Magazine. And someone else will fill in for you because they always do.

You won’t get that dream job like you thought you would. It will go to someone else with far less creative drive and vision than you. Someone far better suited for a cubicle than you.

You’ll be put in groups with people who put your panties in a wrinkle. You’ll sit next to someone on the plane who you’d never talk to except that they won’t shut up … and you’ll end up staying in touch for years and taking family vacations together.

Five years after you graduate, life won’t look anything like you would have imagined. You’ll be single when you thought you’d be married. You’ll have kids when you thought you’d be in the Peace Corps. That trip to Laos will get delayed because you’ve got to stay home and take care of your grandmother. Laos will be there. You’re grandmother won’t always.

He’ll move overseas and oddly the Atlantic Ocean between you will bring you closer than you ever dreamed possible. You won’t get engaged, married, or pregnant when you thought. You’ll miss the bus/train/plane/ferry that you thought you just HAD to be on.

You’ll fall off the turnip truck. You’ll jump on a different bandwagon than you intended. You’ll get fired when you thought you ought to be getting hired.

You’ll realize you forgot the outfit you had planned to wear and that the shoes are all wrong now that you have a full-length mirror to see the whole outfit. Your shirt will be wrinkled and you’ll spill red wine on your white jeans.

Your dog will eat your five-year plan. You’ll drop your Blackberry in the toilet (at least once). Your computer will crash, and you’ll delete the first draft of your magnum opus. You’ll accidentally delete your hard drive and end up with a clean slate.

You’ll show up late to the date with the guy you were sure was going to fit into your husband suit and realize he’s less than graceful under stress and not so flexible (better to know now than later).

When you thought you’d be baking pies and living behind your very own white picket fence you’ll find yourself doing something so entirely different you couldn’t have even imagined it a year before. There will be moments when you’ll look around and not even recognize your own life … in a good way.

You’ll take a wrong turn and end up in an entirely different city than you intended. You’ll dial the wrong number and end up in love with an entirely different person than you intended.

You’ll flunk out and end up taking five years instead of four to graduate. You’ll have your heart broken when you were sure you were with the one and then meet the other one a month later. You’ll move to a new city to start a new business with those perfect new business partners and then it will all go to shit. And you’ll move across the country again only to realize that that’s where you belonged the whole time.

You’ll drive as far away from home as possible thinking that it will make you feel free. Then you’ll get homesick and drive back four months later because you suddenly feel trapped.

You’ll imagine the open road, country music playing loud, you singing at the top of your lungs and flirting with a new man in every town. And then you’ll invite someone to come with you on a whim and realize driving around the country by yourself was a terrible idea anyway … and that it’s way more fun when you’re traveling with someone you love.

You won’t do it at the right time.

You’ll be late.

You’ll be early.

You’ll get re-routed.

You’ll get delayed.

You’ll change your mind.

You’ll change your heart.

It’s not going to turn out the way you thought it would.

It will be better.

-Kate Moller: source here

12 comments:

missy. said...

this was absolutely beautiful.

i lost quite a few followers when i stopped blogging. but like you, i blog for the freedom and how it makes me feel. not because i am trying to get as many followers as i can.

thanks for sharing this.

Sam&Sarah said...

I love this! I really needed to read something like this today.

Krysten @ After 'I Do' said...

Totally stealing this from you. It's kinda perfect, so true.

Annie Kennedy said...

I really like this :) And I really like you! :) I'm sorry you lost followers, but at least they're not hanging around being mean.

Caitlin said...

I struggle with this very topic so much! I go through periods when things not working out my way gets to me more. Recently its been getting to me more. I seriously teared up reading this. No one ever prepped me for change and especially acceptance to change. I have the worst habit of FLYING OFF THE HANDLE or having some baby tantrum when things don't work out the way I want or envision them to. I will most definitely be sharing this with my future kids. Thanks for sharing this, seriously! Its always so nice to know there are others experiencing the same things.

PS. your hair looks AMAZING in that pic!!

Tori said...

thank you. Needed this.

by the way, I adore reading about moses.


and I love the daily moe =)

Lee S. said...

Glad you decided to share this :) And give Moe a kiss from me tonight!

{andthisiswhatshesaid} said...

Love this.

michael. mindy. dane. said...

i love loved this! thanks for sharing! have you seriously lost followers? oh my. people are lame. i love your blog as much now as i did the first time i read it. more, actually. and i love you too :)

Britt- said...

I love reading your blog Chloe. Especially when I don't get to see ya for a long time. It makes it easy to catch up :)

{Jesica Huffaker} said...

Amen...

Kayla said...

thank you for posting this!! i love it.